Sorry for the late reply. I was sick. I hold my fiancee's hair while I sleep. It is very comforting and makes me feel secure. I enjoy the feel of her hair and it arouses me. It's just doesn't feel to me that the popular acts like jerking off and loading cum in hair etc are not that frequent, attractive, or practical as advertised - just for me. Hair play is still one of our rituals of foreplay. Hair fetish is different for different people as one of our friends have pointed out and I also concur with other people with physical experience and thank for the comments.