I've seen posts on here on how to come out to your partner regarding our desire and attraction to hair. I dont want to call the following advice, because the personalities and dynamics of every relationship is different. Anyway, from personal experience try this...

Sexual honesty. It is paramount. Honesty with yourself about what you want, need or desire and expressing that to a partner is crucial. Some of us, including me at one point, felt that we'd be judged if we revealed our certain "fetish." Accepting that our fantasies cant be experienced in real life. If you cant express to your partner your deepest desires, you are with the wrong person, period. Fantasies exist because they are a concoction of our experiences that form desires that need to be fulfilled. So, finding a partner who has a inate craving to be open and willing to bring those fantasies to life is earth shattering and toe curling.

That is what has happened to me. I have always been attracted to long hair, soft hair or thick hair. Healthy strands that, when I look upon it, cascade down into my visual pleasure centers. Arousing me. I've pursued these women and smelled their conditioner brushed their locks of heaven, and methodically revealed my passion. Although these experiences were fantastic, they dull in comparison to the recent encounters that I have had with my silky blonde haired lover. (Future wife if you will)

First, I am utterly and completely in love with this woman. Second, I was forthcoming with my attraction to hair. Especially her silky blonde locks. We talked about how we have masterbated at work, what porn gets us off. Our comfort and trust with one another about our past and preferences during pillow talk has lead to the most amazing sexual experiences of my life.

So when she brushed her hair I told her how beautiful and amazingly silky it was. How I'd like to feel it on me. She went above and beyond of anything i could of come up with. And honestly, its been a treasure trove of eroticism ever since.

I'll share some more intimate details in a future post. But for now, embrace your inner desires and I hope you all find someone to share them with.