As I sit here crying over my wife cutting off her beautiful long hair I think of what has lead to this point. I have tried to get her to grow her hair long for me for a long time, this was the 5th attempt and again I lose the battle. The longest she had ever grown it was to the middle of her butt and again I to endure when she said she really wants to cut her hair and she did all the way back to the top of her shoulders, 3 years of growth gone in less than 5 miinutes. She does not understand my love of long hair….to her it’s just hair and I should get over it. I’m writing this for any young guys out there that are currently struggling with how to deal with having this fetish which can be a blessing or a curse depending on how you handle it. If having a partner with ultra long hair is your dream than I say do not settle for anything less than your dream. There are plenty of longhair women out there you just have to be confident when you compliment their hair and don’t come off creepy, just start a conversation and throw in a “by the way I think you are very beautiful and your hair is very beautiful too. You’d be surprised how well it actually goes from there. If you want a long haired woman you need to find a woman that already has long hair and loves it, if she doesn’t have long hair and you try to convince her to grow it long when she really doesn’t love long hair it will be a disaster waiting to happen. My wife would say things like omg my hair is starting to touch my butt and that’s gross, right there is the tell tale flag that she does not like long hair, and no matter how much you help her take care of it she still finds it repulsive. It’s this kind of feeling that will kill any sex life because she would be phoning it in with your fetish and your needs will not be met. So moral of the story, don’t be afraid to share your love of long hair with a long haired woman, they are out there I just never got the courage to ask one out and now I’m stuck with feeling sadness and loss over my wife’s decision for the 5th time and it never gets easier. I know I probably sound really douchey since it is her hair and her decision, but I just really don’t like her decision on this and I’m really starting to feel like I’m phoning it in with my marriage now, like I’m on auto-pilot just trying not to explode and cry and end up making her feel bad. We all deserve happiness and right now I feel like I’m just becoming meh. Sorry for my ramblings but I needed a space to be able to air this out with people who understand my fetish.