I'm sorry man. Some women just don't get it. My wife knows about my fetish and lets me play with her hair but almost never uses it during sex. She gave me hairjobs a couple of times but complained afterwards having a hard time washing the stuff out of her hair and that takes away the overall good feeling about it. It's really sad because she has beautiful hair and has been growing it for me. She says though she will cut 8 inches next summer to have thick ends. That scares me a bit.