Hi BR,

Thank you for your support. It’s been a really off 3 days and unfortunately I ended our Christmas on a bad note because of all of this. She cut her hair on Monday after she had asked me if I would be ok, I knew I would not be ok, but I also knew that she would go through with it regardless even if it was delayed by a couple of days. I tried to put on a brave face and say yes I would be fine but true to form 3 days later and it finally came out. She feels like I lied to her and that I’m becomimg scary and controlling. I just feel like a gut-wrenching pain when she came home from the haircut and all that beautiful long hair that hung just past her lower back was not 2 inches past the shoulder line. I miss the way it looked flowing down her back. I am thinking of having us see a sex therapist/couples therapy so we can talk this out more and come to a compromise. I always wants her to grow her hair to the floor but I would just love it so much if she just let it grow just part her butt, it’s long enough to be super long and short enough to wear down. I’ll just have to wait and try to open up more willing communication.