Get it wet! I love to see a gal with long silky hair to her butt or a little past, thick golden brown or red hair especially. Or curly hair, like Shellie from Southern Charms in the earlier days. I want to see it wet, but not forward. Get it in the shower, or a tub, or pool, dunk it, swing it, show it off in it's gleaming glory. Start with a bunch of dry teasing and showing off, and then go get it all wet, the slower the better. That gets me going.