Um, no, I don't masturbate with lit candles close around. I do have candles in my bedroom, but I don't masturbate close to lit ones. I have used a fireplace for videos/pics, however, I'm ALWAYS wary of my distance from it.
Anyway, to the originator of this thread.. I understand it is a fantasy, and I pray that that's all it will ever be for you. The mere thought of a woman's willingness to set her hair on fire, is completely anathema to me (I'm hoping there aren't folks like that out there who'd want to hurt themselves like that). The injuries that a person can obtain from fire are overwhelming; I'm sure pc can add to this (I believe he'd mentioned working for a fire dept before).
xoxo,
Anya